Lindsay makes people feel special. It is just what she does!
Yesterday while running errands, we were in a traffic line waiting to get out of the shopping center. There was quite a line of cars waiting to turn right and at the corner was a gentlemen holding a sign asking for help. A common sight we see these days. Lots of people struggling to make ends meet. I noticed that he was very friendly, waved at people in each car. I don't know if those people responded but he kept up with every car that came close. We were drawing closer to making our turn and I notice that Lindsay waved her hand to him, gestering for him to come see. "Come see my Babygrr" she says with her hands. My first reponse was "oh, no, Lindsay". I look up and he has an excited look on his face as though he may have hit the jackpot, or so I thought.
We had taken Grr to the park for a walk and it was a beautiful day, windows rolled down, sun shining brightly. He comes to the window and I tell him, in an apologetic way "she wants to show you her dog", thinking he is expecting me to hand him a little cash. He then says, "oh, thank you, you have such a cute little dog. Is it a Cockopoo?" "No, she is a poodle", I say and he begins to tell me that his friend's goat just had babies. I immediately realize that although a little cash would have been nice, he was just so pleased to be talking with someone, to connect with someone, like we all do.
The cars were moving forward and so was our saying goodbye. He said "thank you for showing me your dog" and we told him to have a great day and as he walked away, I noticed a little more happiness all around. I had expected an upcomfortable situation, maybe he expected some cash but what happened was that Lindsay reached out to someone with no expectations, no judgements, only belief that connecting to others is sometimes the most important thing.
She was kind for no reason......it is just what she does!
